Thursday, July 23, 2009

A little Ella (of course) . . . and six months in Australia

In less than a week, the little baby who made me a mother will celebrate her first birthday. I joined the ranks of many other parents who "can't believe their child is . . . " many months ago; but the first birthday seems especially monumental.

My mum is coming down from Brisbane to celebrate with us. I'm not sure exactly what we'll do. I do know that it will involve a birthday cake, some gifts and some extra loving on our baby girl. Hopefully the weather will be nice and we'll take her on an extra long walk. These days she about hyperventilates if she even thinks she's going to get to go outside.

I thought Ella would celebrate her first birthday with just two teeth. However, she cut four top teeth in less than three weeks. Considering it was tooth after tooth, she did well.

Ella is so close to standing on her own. She tends to be cautious in nature and so far has been diligent about holding on to things as she gets up and down. She has really gone through a surge in her development recently. She can do baby sign language for "more", "all done", "dog" and "milk". Now more difficult lessons are around the corner . . . namely that she can't always have what she signs for.

She loves reading by herself. I love to watch her turn the book up the right way and turn the pages while pointing at different things. Today she kissed a few of the characters in the book, smelled one and thought something in the book was very funny because she was pointing and giggling. So sweet. Even when covered in food.


We've reached another milestone recently . . . six months in Australia. Its also hard to believe. We're getting into a groove more and more and getting better at catching the curve balls that sometimes come our way. I was thinking the other day that one of the blessings of this move has been that we've had the opportunity to bond more as a family. Our lives in the US were so busy. Since moving here though things have slowed down dramatically for us and that has been a blessing to our marriage and our family life. Typically each Monday we have set aside for family day. We're training ourselves now for when ministry life picks up the pace a little, and trying to have a good habit of really taking time out as a family.

With six months under our belt, day-to-day life is running a little smoother. The grocery store no longer seems like a black hole (i.e. I can usually succeed in making a "quick" trip to grab a few things!). Now we have the usual places we feel comfortable shopping, getting haircuts etc. I don't even gripe (as much) about hanging clothes out to dry. Well except for today. I hung out three loads of laundry on a beautiful, sunny and windy morning . . . only to have them get rained on. I digress. At least the view is pretty.



We even have a few new friends, and Ella likes vegemite!


God has certainly taken care of us and blessed us richly during this transition. There are more transitions to come. The most obvious being the birth of our second child. If you had told me that within our first year in Australia, we'd have another baby, I would have told you that you were crazy. In fact, I do believe I said something along those lines to my doctor when he suggested having a second one sooner than later. (his kids were 13 and 15 months apart and I remember him saying "its the way to go"). I'll have to send him a note and let him know!

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

4th of July and other happenings

We celebrated July 4th with our team here in Wollongong. Since I couldn't dress my Texas baby in a cute All-American outfit, and she doesn't really have any red, white and blue winter clothes, I just put her in pink. Maybe one day we'll end up in the US over July the 4th.

Ella on July 4th 2009 . . . turning on the cuteness hoping it will get her over the gate . . .



Ella is very interactive these days. We'll find her laughing and talking with her baby doll, or laughing at someone in the check out line at the grocery store. This always amuses me because her nature is typically reserved with strangers. I guess if we're nearby she feels secure enough to have a laugh. Over the weekend, people were playing games at our house and she sat in on them. And for now, at least, people are very gracious about her presence. But times are changing. We can't just sit at the low lying coffee table, or on the floor and expect her to observe from a distance. She wants to be RIGHT there, touching things, eating things etc.

Hanging with the big kids . . .



Speaking of eating, all of sudden, Ella wants what we're eating. There are times when she can't have it - more often than not, in fact. And today we had our first tantrum over that. . . you know, the whole lip dropping, "you-broke-my-heart" sob, big tears, etc, etc. I gave Ella a Rusk and proceeded to eat half of a Scotch Finger cookie/biscuit myself. It looks very similar to a Rusk but my smart little cookie knew that I had something different. She wanted it and hence the temper tantrum. Growing up just seems really tough some times. I'm learning how tough it can be as a parent to stick to training and disciplining her and not giving in. And this is just the beginning . . . the "easy stuff", I'm sure!

This Monday we spent part of our family day at Carrington Falls. We took a short walk through the bush to Izzard lookout, too. Ella enjoyed the birds, the trees and the water.

Jason is going to make a rock climber out of this girl one day . . .




Is this what you're asking for, Dad? A giraffe face?



Funny thing lately is that when wanting her Dad's attention, Ella has learned that cuteness, rather than yelling works much better. So she'll pull the giraffe face and giggle at the same time until he looks at her.

We didn't make it far down the road before Ella was chewing herself to sleep with a Rusk. She's done this a few times and it it so cute . . .




And a cute picture to leave you with. What kind of parents let their kid end up like this after a meal? I really don't know how this happened but it happened fast . . .